HOW TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND ALWAYS LOVING YOU

• If anything's hard in a relationship, it's constantly keeping the affection of the person you love. Even though it may seem difficult, it's not impossible. I like to think that "if there's a will, there's a way." If you want something enough and you're willing to work for it, you'll be able to accomplish it. This applies even to love.
  Therefore, through experience and much pondering, I have come to the conclusion that constant attention is required to discover the little details that will help your partner fall in love with you daily. Here I share five points to help you keep your husband completely in love with you:

• Believe in yourself

  There's something so attractive about a woman that doesn't doubt herself, her beauty, her faith or her qualities. Realizing how great you are will ensure that your husband holds on to you in difficult times. But, more importantly, he will admire your strength and mental clarity in times of need.
  
  
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• Be confident

  When jealousy tries to govern the relationship, it's best to banish the feeling. Prove to your husband that you trust him and that he can trust you, not only as a loyal partner, but as a woman who can be someone to turn to in times of insecurity, fear and even failure.

• Be sympathetic

  To understand someone you must be "all eyes and ears." Listening is the key to understanding someone. Stop complaining and free yourself from the need to identify and judge your spouse's mistakes. Avoid the opportunity to criticize. Doing so will show him you are not only his wife, but a friend in whom he can trust.

• Make yourself understood

  As mentioned above, to understand, you need to know how to listen; but you also need to know how to communicate to be understood. Speak without shouting, without desperation. Don't pick at qualms, don't twist your words, don't "go out on a limb;" be frank and direct. Misunderstandings cause a number of negative issues.

• Be fun

  Recognize that you don't know everything and you can even laugh at yourself. This will make him love you a little more every day. Believe me, your smile will light up the darkest days and relax stressful times. So look at the bright side of everything and help him do the same, every day. Invite him to an unexpected date or surprise him with a nice touch; and show him that even though you are his rock, you can also laugh together.
  
  
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  Every man is different, and if you love your husband, you'll work to learn what he loves about you. Cultivate the qualities that he is attracted to and seek to improve. Remember that you have everything you need to make your husband always feel as in love with you as he did from day one.
  This article is a translation and adaption from the original article, 5 ideas para que tu esposo esté; perdidamente enamorado de ti published on familias.com.
  
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  You used your feminine wiles and scintillating personality to capture his attention, make him fall in love with you and marry you. You might think the hard part is over, but now is not the time to slack off. Your husband needs your loving attention now as much as he did when you were dating.
  
  • Mignon McLaughlin said, “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” Here are 20 ways to make your husband fall in love with you again and again.
    
    • Ask him to flex his muscles, then swoon.
    • Watch the big game with him. Or even better, invite his friends over and make it a party.
    • Turn on his favorite music before he gets home.
    • Make him his favorite meal. With dessert.
    • Initiate love-making.
    • Ask him to help you with a problem.
    • Ask for his opinion.
    • Tell him he's sexy when he fixes things.
    • Encourage him to have a night out with the guys. Then, don't pout if he takes you up on it.
    • Write love notes on the mirror with lipstick. If you're sure the kids won't see, make it a little steamy.
    • Forgive him when he makes a mistake. Then, never bring it up again.
    • Brag about him to someone else while he's in earshot.
    • Ask him about his athletic accomplishments. Then, listen with rapt attention.
    • Give him a scalp massage as he drifts off to sleep.
    • Wake him with a kiss... or more.
    • Tell him he smells great.
    • Celebrate a personal goal he has achieved. Take him out to dinner or celebrate his favorite way at home.
    • Notice and thank him for the little things he does for you.
    • Dress up for him, even if you're not going out.
    • Take him out to the latest action movie and share a tub of popcorn.
    Too often, we get caught up in the newly-discovered faults of our husband once we get married, and we forget to just be nice. Try some of these tips, and come up with some of your own. You will not only make your him fall in love with you again, but you might find yourself falling more in love with him as well.
    
    Cheers